Exposing a sociopath

The Internet makes it easy for one to lie about who he is, what he’s accomplished and where he’s been. It also makes it easy to expose someone who plays fast and loose with the truth.

If someone’s leaving a path of “broken hearts and empty wallets” in his or her wake, make it known to others. Help people avoid the suffering you’ve encountered.  Not many will heed your warnings, but there will be a few rescued. Sociopaths are good con men and can explain away almost anything to the satisfaction of someone whose heart and mind they control. I know of at least one woman who paid attention to my effort. There may be others who never bothered to contact me.

It’s especially useful if you can get access to criminal records.  These are all public records, unless the arrests or convictions took place before the individual was 18 (in the United States).

The truth is 100% defense against libel and slander.  Remember that.  Don’t say anything that can’t be proven as being the truth. Because the sociopath is someone who wants to “win,” you might find yourself in court if there’s any shred of non-truth to what you say. In my own case, everything I’ve said or written is backed up by court documents. Even though there have been indirect threats of legal action, it’s never happened.  And with good reason. It’s the truth and I can prove it.

I’m lucky, so-to-speak, because the sociopath who wreaked havoc in my life has an extensive arrest record. There are more than a few outstanding warrants. Any civil action against me would be a guarantee that EVERYTHING would come out.

If you can expose someone like this, do it.  Remember to tell the truth and use only FACTS that you can support. Research laws in your state that pertain to libel and slander (defamation) so you know what you can legally do.  If you have the resources, consult an attorney.

If your sociopath found you online, submit your story to Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths.


36 thoughts on “Exposing a sociopath

  1. Nikki says:

    Thank God for your website. I have a Sociopath who took advantage of me for 8 years, and I was too codependent to get out! He does have a very extensive criminal background across the states; Florida, Arizona, New York, and Lord knows where else! IF you Google his name “Brian Dunlop” mugshot, you will see his picture (just one mugshot; although there are hundreds that were not published with his arrests and convictions unfortunately). He lies, steals from me and his former jobs, has an addiction to porn and prostitutes (he is registered with at least 20 different sex sites, and I have proof of most of them in my possession), has drug and alcohol habits, leads his victims on while living off them because he can’t keep a job! His psychologist reports show that he is a “true” sociopath; listed as Anti-Social Personality Disorder (which I have a copy of as well). He was so charming and lead me on for so long, and now I could use some counseling to regain all my strength and self-confidence back. If only I would have realized and known about his personality disorder and evil cons sooner! Please warn all women possible from this real live sociopath. I should have known better when his own mother calls him a liar and a sociopath for years and even wrote this in her e-mails to me. He is very charming and nice on initial contact with me and other women, and by the time they realize he is a big fraud, they have wasted too much time and lost their confidence. This conman never reveals his true past or con, so many women are hurt and used and abused by him; not to mention scarred. Contact me via email, if you want to see my actual proof, and learn more facts of horror by this guy. Please list me as anonymous on your site, if you decide to post this monster in order to stop him from devouring other innocent and vulnerable women. I don’t trust him to try to flatten my tires or do even worse harm to me.

    Thanks a bunch!

  2. Ariel says:

    I was also marked by a sociopath and went into exile. He also cooperated with a somatic narcisssist female. I have all the evidences to prove what they did but I still have yet to be able to get a hold of arrest records. How do you do that. I have tried. Did you expose this person on a blog, you tube…?

    Thank you

    • documentarycharmed says:

      Do you know for sure that criminal records exist?

      Many locales now have them online. You just have to know where and when the arrest occurred.

      It helps if you know the history of these people. Where have they lived? Sometimes that’s difficult, because they lie so much. The SP I know said he lived in Jamaica and France, for example, but he was lying.

      Search online for court records. Trust only official state, county and municipal sites. The places that ask you to pay to look people up are usually a rip off. They have very limited info. Even some private investigators only have access to limited information.

      Also, some states don’t share their data, so you have to call the courts to see what their policies are. You might need to pay for records to be sent to you.

      Outing the people on the web could be risky. You have to understand that. If they’ve caused you physical harm or you can show financial loss, your best bet is to talk with your local law enforcement to see what can be done. My SP spent hours and hours a day for a few YEARS trying to come up with ways to “get” me. I did write a blog, where I published all of the arrest records I could find for him, and he did try to sue me, but his attorney wouldn’t even go forward with the case, saying that it wasn’t “nice” of me to do that, but it didn’t live up to the definition of libel.

      Just be very careful when dealing with these people. If you can avoid all contact, it’s better that way. It will take a long time, but you’ll eventually stop thinking about it. After several years, I don’t give a crap about this dude. He’s a middle aged drunken loser, and will eventually be an elderly drunken loser (if he lives that long), sitting in his own filth, because he won’t have anyone who cares enough about him to change his soiled diaper.

      So, my advice is, if you’re hurt in anyway, see law enforcement to take action. If not, try to move on. The pain will go away. And, just be careful you see the signs in new people you meet and avoid them like the plague if they’re anything like the others!

  3. Jack says:

    yes i had to deal with one for 2days we met for a weekend back in september 17th 2012 , a female sociopath who gave me alot of lies and rubbish and charmed me online, only to hurt me when we actually met, by trying bullying tactics and putdowns (banter) she would call it, and then tell me about her sexual exploits and how she gotta away with it. i told her nothing about myself, i knew what she was doing and it was painful, but now i know the signs and will not what to look for in the future. just make sure, if you hear the stories there telling you and its all about them, just keep quiet and listen carefully, there will be holes in the stories and dont give anything away, that could be used against you. luckily im a natural introvert so i was in no way going to 1up this sociopath, i know what she is now, i talked to her at work, she blends in perfectly a very busy bee and had no time for me, i told her what i thought and left, i saw her shattered face, she turned into a shrinking violet, she could not put the blame on me.

  4. Shishu says:

    My sister was married to a Sociopath/ Phycopath for 10 year. His name is Lakshman Balasubramanyam. He lied about anything and everything. Lied about his previous family/kids, having bone cancer his finances, and the list goes on. It sounds strange but he lied, falsified documents, forging signatures, involved in money scam with banks, was sacked from previous employments for fraud and dishonesty. He has also forged legal and Police documents. It is clear to me that he would carry on doing deceiving & cause harm to people and society until he is exposed. I have bundle of documentary proof against him as facts. What would be the best way to expose these Phycos?

    • Janus Abhimanyu says:

      This chap, the name and incidents sound familiar, can you please share details if you have any?

      • SH says:

        Yes of course. Can you send me your email and telephone so we can talk. How did you know this guy?

    • Abhinay Lakshman says:

      Hi Shishu,
      This person sounds extremely familiar. I realise that it has been a while since you posted this, but I think I may know him. Could you please share some details with me?


      • SH says:

        Hi Abhinay,

        I believe you are related to Lakshman Balasubramanyam and you know what a Psychopath he is. I really do not know where to start. Lakshman Balasubramanyam is just a total fake and mentally disturbed person. If you want to know then I will only tell you what has been proven in the courts and by the police. This is just a tip of the iceberg. Regularly produced fake documents with fake signatures of high officials. Regularly forging signatures and falsifying documents to money scams people, Banks and other financial institutions.

        Lakshman Balasubramanyam worked for EMERIO Corporation (emeriocorp.com) and was sacked on the spot for range of lies and forgeries. Was taken to Court (Tribunal) and he even forged documents for the courts. Amazing….The tribunal found him to be dishonest, scandalous and vexatious. Full transcripts are available from the courts. Emerio’s Witness statement and the transcript is a must read if you want to know who you are dealing with.

        Was arrested and prosecuted by the Police. UK Crime Prosecution Service (CPS) took him to the Crown Court charged under FRAUD ACT; he ended up in the Crown Court. Finally he pleaded guilty. Not sure what sentence he got.

        He is a compulsive liar who would fake illness like when he informed us that he had bone cancer. Make fake X-rays and hospital papers for his illness.

        Like I said this is just a few. If you need details then contact me I will send you his art work. I would not write or say anything negative about anybody, but for the sake of people coming in contact with Lakshman Balasubramanyam in the future, Please be warned. No matter what and how you are related to him, DON’T get involved with him Ever. Thankfully now he has nothing to do with me.

  5. Would love to expose a narcissistic sociopath who is on POF and uses that has a breeding ground to con and manipulate women who I just happen to fall victim in his sick game. Come to find out he had two felonies and a rap sheet like no other.. Plus his 3 DWI arrest as well.

  6. Being married to a female psychopath has ruined mu life. I know that because there are children involved, she is determined to make my life miserable. What is sad, is she targets my wife and step child. Sometimes I wonder if I was selfish to marry my wife. I knew that my ex psychopathic wife would probably target her. But I was so in love, it was a love I never had experienced before.
    Unlike the “love” I received from my soulless ex wife – which was conditional, and didn’t last long. She was having an affair after 1 year of marriage.
    I have gone no contact with her in order to protect my wife and step daughter from her. They are innocent in all this and have been attacked viciously by my ex wife. I know she will never leave me alone. So I just ignore her, no contact had helped a great deal

  7. Darcy Ansel says:

    I dated a sociopath for 6 years…the last 2 1/2 years he moved away and it was a long distance relationship; I thank GOD for that as I distanced myself from him as I could then see his sociopathic tendencies more easily. He, Sean Patrick Kennedy Hill, was an actor, in every sense of the word. He evidently had at least one more relationship at the same time. He is the biggest liar, con man, cheater, I have ever known. Owes so many people money and doesn’t care about anything but himself. Quite the charmer, he is. Good Looking too…a real predator. Sociopaths are monsters, they really aren’t human as they cannot sympathize or understand the heart of a person, no empathy, that’s what makes a human a human. Oh, and he has many alias… all similar to his name….that is another sign of a sociopath…its harder to keep track of them when they have different names. Well, I feel sorry for the young girl he is with now; I told what he is, but she doesn’t want to believe it..so, her life will be miserable until she figures it out. I’m sure he will financially ruin her. If you meet a sociopath, run as fast as you can……

    • MovinoninMA says:

      Funny…I googled Sean Patrick Kennedy Hill to see if i could find any news on him FINALLY getting his (BTW Kennedy not even his real name… he made up some story that he was related to THE Kennedys. I met some of his family). Yep, this sociopath scammed me out of THOUSANDS! Honestly, I hope the poor girl he is supposedly engaged to now-initials D.M. SOMEHOW finds out his HUGE web of lies (naturally this is the same girl he warned me was OBSESSED with HIM and if she ever called me not to believe a word she said-he wasn’t the least bit attracted to her and she couldn’t get that through her thick head). I was just getting out of a VERY unhappy marriage when i met him on a cruise and know I was easy prey at the time. One thing he did was he claimed he wanted to help me get out from under some debt and so i gave him money to buy a classic car ( which he said he would fix up for me )…another failed business/ scam he runs. Of course I never got the car nor the thousands which I was told I would receive back in 30 days when he signed some deals. He claimed he just needed to pay some bills for his (eventually) FAILED “movie studio”in Fl.. 3 years later still waiting for my car and haven’t received ONE penny. I could go ON and ON detailing his lies Darcy-we should compare notes. I would LOVE to take him to court but frankly I think Karma will be a far worse punishment for this pathetic excuse for a man. I’m sorry he did this to you. Sadly, I KNOW we’re not alone. He’s very sick.

      • SPKisBad4health says:

        Let’s not be mean to D.M. she thinks she’s happy with a star and a dream. Let’s not take that from her.

      • HonestAbe says:

        About Sean

        Just a fella’ who pecks and paws out new worlds/realities/lives on the keypad. I have built Ciffhanger Studio’s in South Fl. with the help of some really great filmmakers and dreamers.  I’m currently (Pre-production) working on “Sam Savage Adventures”, singing (Standards) and acting (Sky Masterson in Guy’s and Dolls) while attempting to pay the bills and hone my craft. Seems to be working! I was born in Massachusetts and grew up all over bouncing back and forth between N.Y., Bradford, Ma., Atlanta, L.A., Southern Pines, N.C. and Central/South Florida my whole life. I took a lot from ALL those places. The cultures, the people, places.. Some people never have the opportunities in life to see even half of what I have lived. I get to showcase those experiences in an art form called film. A small sample of my film credits can be seen on imdb.com. “The best is Yet to Come…!”


      • Darcy Ansel says:

        He is sick…he was on judge Judy for car fraud April 28 2016. Check it out on you tube. several victims he has. Maybe we all should get together and sue him.. My phone is 9549370254 if u want to contact me.

      • http://thetvdb.com/?tab=episode&seriesid=71221&seasonid=638246&id=5597825&lid=7

        Season 20 episode 163

        See the legend use emergency to manipulate others into believing he is any sort of victim. Just as was said earlier, textbook. Shame he used his daughter in order to do that.

        Now he is here where less than all his victims have gathered like a wolf in a patch of harmless bunnies claiming he is also harmless. Knowing that each person had been majorly affected by his actions.

        Nobody wants criminal money, everyone here, and elsewhere, are after justice now. This has all transcended money and its personal.

        Good people stand on the commitments they’ve made, others fall to the chaos brought on by themselves.

        46 years old, still a full life to live in regret, despair, guilt, shame, and depression. Just think, those feelings are of a free man, for now. ….someday, that will all be but a cliff note to the whole story.

    • I’m not sure where the comment I left last night went BUT D’Arcy I too was scammed and lied to repeatedly by Sean Patrick Hill (Kennedy was added for effect apparently AND not because he is related to THE Kennedys as he claimed to me when I met him 3+ years ago. Yep, dated him and used me too. Stole THOUSANDS from me. I could tell you SOOOOOO many stories…we should compare notes. I just hope that poor girl he is engaged to wakes up and spares herself a lifetime of pain (he used to tell me about her and warned me that if she ever contacted me I shouldn’t believe a word she says because she’said just a “kid that’she obsessed with him” and that he wasn’the attracted to her at all). He’s a a failure with his car business and “movie studio” and a VERY sick individual… a true sociopath. I’m sorry he did this to you as well 😦 . My only gratification is that I am certain Karma will have it’set way with this pathe tickets excuse for a man.

      • SPKisBad4health says:

        Yes please i would love to compare notes. There may be a way we can all get justice or get our money we deserve back. Do a search and see the Sean Richard Hill AKA Sean Patrick Kennedy Hill rap sheet. The producer extraordinaire of cliffhanger studios, smash entertainment, think tank, sam savage P.I., and Hollywood Rat Rods. Yep, he stays busy

      • How do we get in touch with each other. Any way to send private message? I hate to spend one more minute thinking about this pathetic loser but we need to prevent him from victimizing anyone else.

      • NotAFan says:

        Holy crap who knew this guy had such a string of false relationships and businesses. My experience meeting him was always a lot of talk and no walk. He never did any actual work with films only auto body work and even that always had enemies knocking on his door. Richard or whatever his real name is (who knows at this point) screwed around on every girl he was with, took advantage of those who helped build up his studio, and owes a lot of them thousands. Cops visited there so many times, wouldn’t be surprised if hes cheating the fed thousands in taxes among other sketchy scams. The guy would talk huge game and like we all sociopaths love to coax you with charm and constant “can do will do” attitude. Hes also a narcissist. To the T. Everything was his way all the time and he would complain if it wasn’t. He pretends to care and do “favors” but thats only to keep you hooked in his circle of usage. Its not by chance so many people are done with this guy and now its coming together.

    • SPKisBad4health says:

      Oh Darcy. …. i know of you and have heard stories of you. I’m someone that knows the man you are speaking of. Sean Richard Hill AKA Sean Patrick Kennedy. Alas, Ive find other sufferers. I along with a few others will be joining this conversation. I was CONed by this narcissistic threat. I don’t know what to do about any of this but I’m so happy I could get in touch with others that have also been hurt by this facade of a man we all knew intimately. There are many people he has stolen from, many people he had taken advantage of, offended and hustled. He is a true charmer yes, and knows how to weasel and be ever so sketchy. I’d like to communicate further with you all soon.
      There are many more people to be saved from the heartache. This is a great first step to a great collaboration of survivors.

  8. EvilShouldNotWin says:

    He will come up with some extreme story and try to push you to do what he wants. He always has a plot or agenda to push onto you.
    He is a very outspoken supporter of extreme liberalism. He will fight you about your beliefs and speak nonstop over you. He will shout down at you, curse at you, belittle you, bully you, act irate, and mock you. If he is backed into a corner with no options, his behavior is exponentially worse. He will scratch his way out of any predicament, clawing at any bystanders nearby. He is explosive, he is determined, and he is dangerous.
    Avoid this man. He will bring into his web of lies, entrap you, deceive you, and get his way; even if it means stealing.
    He will play victim and powerless to a greater system, yet…..he knows exactly how to work it all to his advantage through manipulation and technicalities.
    A true sociopath that really places himself in the past And anything hip. No mind of his own, not a creative bone in his body. He will claim some super creativity by channeling old history and characters from 50+ years ago. Nothing innovative, nothing clever, and entirely poorly executed. His writing is weak and does nothing constructive, despite his urge to display such a 2 dimensional hologram. He seriously lacks any true depth and relies solely on the ideas of others because his own are so lame.
    Don’t do any business with him. He will try to impose limitations onto you and will try to whore you out claiming he is the one who is behind it all.
    He claims he was involved in major projects even on imdb, yet he has just a bunch of uncredited involvement, not some vital role that relied on him at all for success.
    Dont trust him with your cars or your girlfriend/wife. He will strip them down literally. He will be a creep around any woman, and take parts off your car if he has the opportunity.
    He has some garage in the country area of orlando Florida (didn’t even know that was a thing). He stock piles old junk and tries to hustle it all any moment he can. He’ll make up stories about his motors that aren’t true. He’ll sell you a lemon and promise to put work into it.
    Ultimately, or as he says in cliché form, the fact of the matter is…..
    Just don’t trust him. He is a super proud cliché sociopath.

  9. Michael says:

    I too lost an awful lot of money to spk he is currently wanted by many different law enforcement agencies I we can only hope that he will get the justice he deserves I did a lot of work for him on his cars spent a lot of money and never saw a dime back I do stay in touch with local law enforcement to get and give updates on his whereabouts every dog has his day

      • SPKgoAway says:

        Yeah and one of the guys he cheated already reported him. Crazy thing, the sociopath in him knew he was cheating the eBay winner.

        The crazy thing i just learned is:
        The difference between a psychopath and a sociopath, is that the sociopath knows their actions are wrong; yet they act anyway against their concience.

  10. Michael says:

    I just watched the Judge Judy episode OMG it is funny to see him get spanked he is such a liar even screwing so many people he still plays the I am the victim card the victims are everyone that had any dealings with him. Justice will prevail eventually and yup he will be a star alright the star attraction at a local jail. and Darcy when I hear something Ill text ya

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